We spend our lives chasing that dime

Trying to grab ahold of what’s “mine”

Leaving our children, to whine

While losing track of precious time 

When being present for those we love, is the salt that fills life’s brine 

So step out of line

Slow down, and sip the wine 

And know it will be fine

To simply focus on those you hold dear and their dwindling time. 

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I wrote this poem to remind myself during a very busy time of my life where my job was quite demanding and I had a 1 year old son whom I felt like I barely spent time with due to work. I was reminded that realistically we as fathers only have about 10-12 years to influence our sons before we are no longer their world/hero and start to step out on their own. It is in these precious years we must make sure to set aside the time so we can have an impact on the kind of Man our son will be. The same applies to anyone, Life is about relationships, not money, things, etc. Make sure to spend your limited time with those you love.